Thanksgiving Supper ~ What Are You Planning?
Nov 22nd, 2009 by BohemianMoon

I have never been a major fan of Thanksgiving I have to admit. Perhaps it is because I give thanks every day of my life for my blessings and don’t need a “holiday” to do so, or a holiday in which to gather with family and friends and break bread – any day is as good of a day as the next for that, I say.
However, I do concede that because Thanksgiving falls on a Thursday, people have a long weekend making it easier to travel to loved ones in which they may not have had the time to and that is a good thing. I also concede that holiday and tradition is good for children providing it stays argument and stress free, which often enough, it rarely does – but that is the hope anyway.
Do I sound Bahumbugish already with a mere 32 shopping days left until the BIG event?
It is not my intention, really.
( I actually like Yule and Christmas in small doses)
With that said, Moon Manor’s festivities for this year’s Turkey Day is a small affair with just three humans, two canines and nine felines (yes, we have a new addition)- good thing we all love turkey ’cause at $.29 per pound we “gots us a big un” – 27 pounds.
(Actually we didn’t have much choice as only the big ones were on sale for that price, and I mean who can pass up good turkey at $.29 per pound?)
Methinks that the menu is as follows: (pretty much the same as last year and varying only slightly from years before)
Fresh Waldorf Salad with Macintosh apples
Turkey (yes, that is a big ass duh!, huh?….all 27 pounds worth)
Homemade stuffing with raisins, apple, celery, onion and sage sausage
Homemade gravy to go with said stuffing
Sweet potatoes in fresh orange cups with minuscule bits of fresh oranges, butter, brown sugar, cloves and nutmeg – not too sweet and no mini marshmallows, please!
Fresh red taters from our personal garden this year, which I will mash (ohhhhhh yum!)
That stupid ass fresh green bean casserole in which I never, ever made before last year. Off a whim Web Boy asked for it (HUH?) and so I made it. It was a hit, oddly enough. I find it interesting since I have been watching the damn commercial for it for like 40 years and it was never made in my family growing up or in mine until 2008. The reaction to it last year being a good one, I suppose that it is a go from last year forward, even though I wasn’t enthralled with it. I will be steaming my own portion of fresh green beans just for me (also from our garden this year). They will be mine, all mine!
Cranberry sauce from fresh cranberries (another of my least favorites) – that Web Boy will be making.
Dinner rolls. Not homemade – the kind that comes in quantities of 12 in a plastic bag at the grocer. For some ungodly reason I LIKE those suckers and it would not be Thanksgiving without them.
Olive tray.
For Dessert?
PUMPKIN PIE (you hear that Hubs?!?) from scratch with freshly whipped cream (Hubs hates it and GOOD I say, more for me!)
Native American Pudding from scratch
And because I do love Hubs – a Black Cherry pie made from scratch with Edy’s Vanilla Custard ice cream – his favorite.
The tablescape will be in fall colors and relatively casual – the centerpiece? I haven’t a clue except I do know it will involve fresh flowers and candles, because as much of this massive-amount-of-work-just-to-eat holiday is a non event for me personally, I do like me a pretty table!
How about you?

My Thanksgiving may sound a bit sad to some but Truly it is not!
Hubs is going to work. It is his holiday and it is good money that we need. Oldest is still in TN. So that leaves me and Youngest.
I cooked our Thanksgiving dinner last Sunday. Lovely 15 lb turkey breast, sausage stuffing, giblet gravy, cranberry/orange sauce, those same dinner rolls Moon, mashed tatos, and roasted brussel sprouts. It was really good.
I planned this out because of my surgery. I wanted turkey dinner dammit and I was gonna get it! ROFL
So what are youngest and I having for this day of Thanks?
CHINESE FOOD! WooHOo!!
Heidi~
My Thanksgiving may sound a bit sad to some but Truly it is not!
Your post proves my point that thanks and breaking bread with loved ones can, does and should come whenever the mood strikes
No last Thursday in November any year, ad infinitum, needed!
And bring on the Chinese Takeout, I say!
This is one of the few meals Mr. Giddy and I collaborate on – most of the time he is the cook of the house, and for that, Lord, let us be truly thankful.
It’s traditional all the way: turkey, homemade stuffing with celery, onions, lots of sage and raisins, garlic mashed potatoes, a green veg, gravy that even I like because we roast the bird with Madeira in the pan and it makes the drippings taste wonderful.
Mr. Giddy is considering an apple cider glaze for the turkey, which sounds pretty good. I’ll have to go to a local cider mill before Wednesday to buy some fresh cider. (Hmmm, might as well get some warm doughnuts while I’m there.)
Dessert this year is a pumpkin pie made with bourbon, and fresh whipped cream. And If I can lobby for it, apple crisp.
It’s just us, my m-i-l, and one of Mr. Giddy’s oldest friends, who may have to sit on the hearth so his cigarette smoke goes right up the chimney.
The table is still up in the air. I do know we’ll eat in front of the fire and use my mother’s sterling, but I collect china so the plates could be vintage Russel Wright or old ironstone or mom’s white porcelain. Or I may mix and match even more. Candles in old glass double candlesticks and some fresh flowers and we’re good to go.
And as a sign of the Apocalypse, the deals on TVs at Walmart this year are so good, Mr. Giddy is thinking of being in line by 5 a.m. on Black Friday.
First time for everything, I guess.
Giddy from the Heat~
Madeira
This is?
I hate bourbon but I love apple crisp!
The table is still up in the air. I do know we’ll eat in front of the fire and use my mother’s sterling, but I collect china so the plates could be vintage Russel Wright or old ironstone or mom’s white porcelain. Or I may mix and match even more. Candles in old glass double candlesticks and some fresh flowers and we’re good to go.
Now THIS sounds so very, very lovely
Oh, my! I LOVE mixing china, love it
Please promise me you will take a pic and send it to me, please, please?
And as a sign of the Apocalypse, the deals on TVs at Walmart this year are so good, Mr. Giddy is thinking of being in line by 5 a.m. on Black Friday.
Sticks fingers in ears and says lalalalalalalalalalal! I did that Black Friday in person thing ONE year, when Web Boy was 7. Toys R Us. I have never done it since, lol. Good LORD that was brutal! People were mean and two fights broke out in the store at 6 AM!! I am not kidding! Peace and good will and all of that, people. Welcome to the Christmas season! Geez it was scary.
Last year I shopped online when the clock struck 12:00 mid night and got a lot of good deals from the comfort of my rocking chair in front of the fire
I am pretty much finished with most of my shopping actually, and will hit a few of the online stores on Friday for the rest of it. Kohls has some good deals with free shipping and so does LL Bean (both of which have things that I am looking for).
I am NOT shopping..I cannot shop. I am freaking housebound for at least the next 2 weeks and after that I have to be careful.
I will do my shopping online. Plus I will just give the kids a envelope with some money in it. They know I cant go shopping for them and Hubs isnt really good at it.
Moon,
We never ever have a Turkey day in the traditional sense of the word. It is PJ day in our house.
I cook whatever. There is a turkey and stuffing but some years there may be tacos on the feasted table.
Plus oldest is Vegan so there is always something interesting.
We stay in PJs all day. Watch tv, talk to friends, fight over the computer, play board games, etc.
I have come to loath Christmas and what it has become. I wish I could just save all of the money and spend it when the stores have after Christmas clearance! That would make me happy!
We usually have just the three of us but last year hubby invited a guy from work who was going to be alone with his wife due to their son being in Iraq. I agreed since they are nice people and two extra is not too bad. Well, by the time all the other “Thanksgiving orphans” found out and got invited, we wound up with 16 extra people. But you know what? It was fun! It really wasn’t that much more work and everyone brought something. So we’re up to 10 so far this year but I’m sure we’ll wind up with more by Thursday. Here’s the menu so far:
Shrimp with ponzu sauce, spinach dip and veggies for appetizers
Turkey with homemade gravy (I’m making stock out of roasted turkey parts tonight), sausage, cranberry and apple stuffing and homemade cranberry-orange sauce
Mashed potatoes (hubby’s specialty)
The dreaded green vegetable – haven’t decided yet on this one – anyone have any good make ahead recipes?
Sweet potatoes – no marshmallows for me either, yuck.
Pumpkin pie, pear tart and mile high chocolate pie.
It will just be my husband and me this year. My son and his sweet new wife will be taking a few days honeymoon, since they couldn’t take one when they got married on the 7th. They asked if that upset me and told them absolutely not. Go for it and enjoy it for you both deserve it. Besides there will be Christmas and next Thanksgiving.
So, we are considering ordering our dinner from a great little market that has a daily fresh homemade take out. Actually thats what we had today. I had chicken, mashed potaoes and green beans. He the same , except for the tenderloin.The portions are huge, food is as good, if not better than mine, with huge portions and cost $5.99. Heck, you can’t cook a meal for 2 for $12 !
We are renting movies and taking advantage of the quietness.
My parents and brother are flying in on Tuesday and staying through Sunday. The plan was for my Mom to help me out as I am big as a house and due next month. Well she had emergency gallbladder surgery last Tuesday so I feel guilty she is coming. She says she feels great and no issues. I will probably have my husband help out as well. He cooks very well surprisingly. It will be a traditional Thanksgiving for us. I make a mean pumpkin cheesecake by scratch and will be doing two of those this year per my son’s request as well as a traditional cheesecake. I cheat and buy two pumpkin pies from Costco each year. They always taste better than my homemade ones. I love my Mom’s gravy. It always tastes better than mine. I can’t wait.
Chrissy~
ponzu sauce
Which is?
Pumpkin pie, pear tart and mile high chocolate pie.
Oh YUM! What kind of pear tart? I make a good pear crisp with ginger snap crumbs – it is delish – a good fall desert
Gram123~
So, we are considering ordering our dinner from a great little market that has a daily fresh homemade take out. Actually thats what we had today. I had chicken, mashed potaoes and green beans. He the same , except for the tenderloin.The portions are huge, food is as good, if not better than mine, with huge portions and cost $5.99. Heck, you can’t cook a meal for 2 for $12 !
We are renting movies and taking advantage of the quietness.
That sounds wonderful
MonicaW42~
My parents and brother are flying in on Tuesday and staying through Sunday. The plan was for my Mom to help me out as I am big as a house and due next month.
I am so excited for you and Hubs and son! The 23rd correct?
It is my understanding that gallbladder surgery in this day and age is much less invasive than it used to be. It will be great to have her there and hopefully she really does feel up to par! I am sure it will be fine and I want her gravy. I hate to admit it, but I am gravy challenged. It is always hit or miss and while I will always first attempt at homemade, if it turns out to be a miss, I have always have some jarred (
) gravy on hand.
Now about that pumpkin cheesecake………….. What recipe do you use? I never have made it and every year I say that I am going to – I love the Cheesecake Factory’s
Hubby and I will be having dinner at son’s and dil’s house this year. There will also be my mom, 2 grandkids and dil’s aunt who lives with them. I’m looking forward to spending time in their home for the day and enjoying the grandkids and family. My daughter and her family also live here in town but they’ve been invited to a cabin in the Colorado mtns. for the holiday so they will be traveling. I think I’m jealous
My dil’s 82-yr. old aunt is battling lung cancer so as you are giving thanks a little prayer for her would be so appreciated. My wish to everyone, I hope your day is whatever you want it to be and then some. Have a Happy Thanksgiving!
We’re all (my 3 girls, their families, grandbabies and dtr. #3’s new man, my SIL’s mom and aunt are eating together! So, counting little ones, that makes 14. Middle dtr. does the meal at her house, since she has the biggest of the two girls here in town….oldest dtr. and hubs and 5 y/o twin boys come from out of state. Have to have their Christmas goodies ready to go back w/them at T’giving.
My contribution to the meal is the sweet potato casserole, which is to die for and what my girls always called “wendy cake, or maybe windy” I don’t know. It’s just good and it’s one of those that the longer it sits in the frig (like my NY style cheesecake) the better it gets. It just never sits in the frig long enough. Like it or not, I’m including the recipes for both in the next post I make. LOL 0 = )
Moon, Madeira is a dry wine from the Madeira islands off Portugal (I checked Wikipedia). It’s like sherry. We put it in the roasting pan with a turkey or a chicken. The minute the heat hits it, your house will be filled with a delicious smell, and it makes gravy richer and a little more “complex.” I don’t like gravy but I do like it when there is Madeira in it.
I highly recommend it to anyone.
Moon –
Turkey (yes, that is a big ass duh!, huh?….all 27 pounds worth)
I know someone who’s going to be using her Seal-A-Meal bagger!
(FYI – you can assemble, in plastic or heavy duty Chinet or Correll plates, a complete plated meal and seal & freeze – it’ll be turkey day into next summer!)
#1 Heidi
CHINESE FOOD! WooHOo!!
I second that! Best Thanksgiving I EVER had was spending it with the hubs on Cape Cod in a lovely ocean front suite, fireplace on and jaccuzi bubbling – and Chinese takeout!! Doesn’t get much better than that!
This year, just the two of us (son is working a double shift (EMT Dispatcher) and management will cater the dinner there for them).
But I’ll make a turkey and do a few sides and an apple pie for dessert. And then not cook for the next three days. Heh…..
Well, this year will be totally different for me. This will be the first time I haven’t made a huge Thanksgiving dinner. Hubs and I will be alone. My daughter and son-in-law will be spending the day at his brother and wife’s house and my son is volunteering at the homeless shelter to cook and pass out food. Friday, my daughter and son-in-law will be over to eat which will consist of my famous Beef Stroganoff, salad, French bread and homemade cheesecake. My son will still be volunteering. The Saturday after Thanksgiving is my extended family’s Thanksgiving. Big, huge, loud and wonderful.
I’m wishing for snow.
If I’m not back here, Happy Thanksgiving everyone. May your holiday be filled with love and joy.
It kind of sucks when your kids get older and they have a new family to consider or wanting to do something different, like my son. But I’m proud that he’s doing it. I just miss him.
#12itsaboutthekids
Saying a prayer and sending good thoughts to you and the aunt. Here’s a (((((((HUG)))))).
Thanks for the hug, Joanna. I’ll send it along to her. I know what you mean about the kids growing up and having other commitments. I always prefer to have them all home for the holidays but I understand that that’s just not possible. Your son sounds like a wonderful guy and you should be proud. Have a wonderful holiday weekend.
Moon,
Your post was so refreshing. I, too, have NEVER been a fan of this particular holiday. As a matter of fact, I dubbed it “Shovelfest” years ago. What I really look forward to is having the long, four-day weekend. I sleep in, read, and get together with friends after the fact. I do get invited to places, but usually gracefully decline because the whole food orgy thing and football really bother me. Now that I live close to my mom and my dad passed away several years ago, I usually bring the dog to her place and spend the afternoon. Neither of us care about turkey. However, this year, she may go to my sister’s place (my sister = BITCH) and then I will just get together with her on Friday or Saturday. She just got out of the hospital after a nine-day stay for multiple issues (she is 83). I think she is still tired from that and would rather just stay home and watch TV. A good friend of mine is having a simple, elegant meal at her house with a few people and she invited me. Cocktails at 4:30 and dinner at 5:30. No football and no Thanksgiving decorations. I hope I do not offend anyone with my negative opinion of the holiday. My opinion of Christmas is equally negative. The only Christmases I enjoy are the ones I spend in Europe – they are low-key, simple, and intimate affairs. I cannot stomach the rampant American commercialism and the “mandate” that everyone MUST have a wonderful time. Sorry if I sound like a scrooge….
#13Linda
I for sure want your cheesecake recipe. I’ve never made one before so I’m a little nervous. Please don’t forget…..Joanna is waiting
#19Merette
Merette ~~ I agree with you 100% about Christmas. I really, really, really don’t like it and hate what it has become. I wish I could just make it another day. There may come a time when I will. I haven’t had the “Christmas spirit” in years.
Main meal is nothing unusual: turkey, sausage/cornbread stuffing (my dad’s recipe), potatoes (white and sweet), green bean casserole, rolls. The fam doesn’t much like change in the traditional menu.
But being somewhat rebellious this year, I am experimenting with a new recipe – caramelized-onion bread pudding. Sounded intriguing so thought I’d give it a try. I will once again try to replicate my aunt’s tasty gravy but have already warned everyone not to expect success.
For appetizer, my SIL is bringing something called “martini dip”. Not sure what it is exactly but anything with “martini” in it has to be good. My niece is making her lovely homemade pumpkin cheesecake for dessert. It’s divine!
I love my family and am ever so grateful for them but I will be glad when it’s Thanks-Friday and my house is somewhat back to normal. It’s in those quiet moments I reflect on the many reasons I am thankful — Which always reminds me of my sweet mother whose greatest teaching was the saying “I cried because I had no shoes until I met the man who had no feet.” She was a wise woman, my mom.
Wishing everyone a safe and Happy Thanksgiving~
#21 Joanna
#19Merette
Merette ~~ I agree with you 100% about Christmas. I really, really, really don’t like it and hate what it has become. I wish I could just make it another day. There may come a time when I will. I haven’t had the “Christmas spirit” in years.
Joanna,
Good to know that I am not alone in my opinion!!! It is a commercial holiday and I really think it brings out the worst in people, IMO. Now, I do give presents to friends and selected family members – but only the ones I care about. I do not believe in the “mandated” present concept. I go out to dinner with friends – we call it our “holiday event” and we have a really good time at a really nice restaurant in the city and exchange little gifts. I have NEVER gone to the “company Christmas party” ever – except when they are lunches on company time. I always get something nice for my mom and send a package with little gifts to my people in Europe. I have NEVER sent a Christmas card in my life. OH – and you know what drives me absolutely insane??? Those holiday form letters! I do not know which is worse, the holiday form letters or Christmas sweaters. Christmas sweaters should be banned entirely!!!! I could write an entire post on why these sweaters should be banned and I can assure everyone, it would be quite snarkilarious! Sorry for the rant and I apologize in advance if I have offended anyone.
Wendy (Windy) Cake
1 C Butter, softened
1/3 C sugar
2 t water
2 t vanilla
2 C sifted AP flour
1 C chopped pecans
Cream butter and sugar together, add water and vanilla. Mix well. Add flour and pecans. Press mixture into 9 X 13 pan, takes a bit of patience.
Bake @ 325 deg. for 40 min. or til lightly brown. I like this really lightly browned. Cool completely.
Next Whip together:
8 oz. package of Cream Cheese
1 C powdered sugar
1/2 Large carton of Cool Whip
If you make this at one fell swoop, try and keep your Cream Cheese mixture, room temp., it will spread better.
Next mix together:
1 pkg. vanilla pudding (you can use instant)
1 pkg. chocolate pudding
3 C milk
Cool in frig. til set.
Layer on the top of the cooled crust (in this order):
Cream cheese mixture (sometimes I let the cream cheese mixture firm up again, in the frig. before proceeding.)
Pudding mixture
“Frost” w/the remaining Cool Whip and top w/chopped pecans (I use lots)
Keep chilled.
Enjoy!
Holiday form letters!!! OMG, I’d like to strangle whoever thought that one up LOL!!
We give gifts to immediate family, meaning, husband, daughter, son and son-in-law. We give two gifts to our big extended family for the Christmas party because we play a game. I had to put a stop to the neighbors giving gifts to us a few years back. I never felt guilty about not reciprocating so it eventually stopped. Uggg, I’m dreading having to shop. I never know what to get.
Casper, my mother was fond of the “I met a man” proverb. In fact, my sisters and I can abbreviate it to “be glad you have feet,” and we know exactly what it means: Quit yer bitchin!
Hate to post again so quickly, but Joanna, about gifts you hate: I hate having to buy or feeling like I have to buy gifts for the people on the team I manage.
I mean, 14 people! And try finding something for only $5 a piece.
Suggestions welcome!
I love Thanksgiving…the food is great. We’re going to have:
A big ass turkey
cornbread dressing
rice dressing
green beans with bacon (YUM)
potatoe salad
rolls..
I’m going to get super full this year…
Wonder what the Gosselin’s are having….Hopfully a local restaurant caters Thanksgiving meals….
itsaboutthekids~
My dil’s 82-yr. old aunt is battling lung cancer so as you are giving thanks a little prayer for her would be so appreciated.
ABSOLUTELY!
So cool the generations that will be at your supper
I have a dream of being a great grandmother someday!
Linda~
THe Wendy/Windy cake sounds good – I think I will give it a run between Thanksgiving and Christmas. It is too close to Thanksgiving to try something new for that day – at least for me
14 people! That sounds like a partay! Have fun
We are trying something new this year! We are having a Pizza baking contest. We’ll be grilling some, baking some, trying new thin and thick crust recipes and a variety of toppings! The winner gets a gift certificate to our local mall. We’ll be making Garlic Bread and an Italian Salad with Cheese Cake for dessert.
Cynthia~
I know someone who’s going to be using her Seal-A-Meal bagger!
(FYI – you can assemble, in plastic or heavy duty Chinet or Correll plates, a complete plated meal and seal & freeze – it’ll be turkey day into next summer!)
Bwahhahahahahahah! You now me loves my Seal-A-Meal machine! That thing ROCKS – I can’t believe I lived so long without one, really. That is a good idea on the seal a plate – it is a perfect thing for easy lunches too that can be zapped.
I second that! Best Thanksgiving I EVER had was spending it with the hubs on Cape Cod in a lovely ocean front suite, fireplace on and jaccuzi bubbling – and Chinese takeout!! Doesn’t get much better than that!
I am proposing this for everyone for next year! Sounds PERFECT for me
Joanna~
Well, this year will be totally different for me. This will be the first time I haven’t made a huge Thanksgiving dinner. Hubs and I will be alone.
I remember the first time that this happened to my mom and dad. I told her to ENJOY it and I will tell you the same thing. Next year methinks that it just may be Hubs and I and perhaps we will be found on Cape Cod in front of a fire eating seafood
Now about that Beef Stroganoff…………………. one of my most FAVORITE dishes…………..what is your recipe?
Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday, and we do it big. We have 47 at the table so far and there are usually a couple more that show up that day. My hubby will be deep-frying 8 turkeys that day, he does three or four for our house and then friends ask him to do it for their homes. They’re delicious, only take about 45 minutes for an 18 pound turkey! Everyone helps out and brings all the usual faire, I make a great potato casserole that people are scraping the dish. My sister is a fabulous baker and makes pumpkin and apple pie, which I usually enjoy the day after, because I’m too stuffed to eat any on Thanksgiving.
I wish everyone a very happy day, in however you celebrate. I”m thankful for many things in my life and coming on here is one of the things that I’m grateful for ~ Enjoy!
#6 Chrissy- I have an idea for a green vegetable, you can’t make it ahead of time but it is super simple. My mother always makes this. I hate green beans but the sugar covers the taste.
Bake some green beans in the over, but cover them with a sauce. The sauce is butter, brown sugar and pecans. I don’t think there are any set proportions, just add the amounts that suit your taste.
Giddy, I remember my mom saying that all the time, probably hoping at least one of her five kids would heed her words. I tend to forget sometimes but every Thanksgiving (when I miss her the most, truth be known) I am especially mindful of the lesson learned.
#30BohemianMoon
Linda~
THe Wendy/Windy cake sounds good – I think I will give it a run between Thanksgiving and Christmas. It is too close to Thanksgiving to try something new for that day – at least for me
~~~
I have to admit, T’giving is my favorite holiday. I’m sure it’s because it’s the only time during the year that all of my dtrs., their hubs/boyfriend and kids etc. are together at the same time. I love the laughter, the kids running around, all of us working in the kitchen to get the meal on the table, the sights and smells, the moaning over who’s the fullest, etc…. bottom line, I just love being w/my family!
I hope you get to make the cake, it really is yummo!
#35 fallingstar -
Thanks for the green bean idea. It sounds very simple and I’ve got some in the fridge – I think I’ll give it a test run tomorrow. I hate the dreaded green vegetable course – it’s always like the unwanted relative at the table. I would do roasted brussel sprouts but they’re too widely disliked (not by me, though).
Moon – ponzu sauce is a Japanese citrus sauce although I think my recipe (which has been passed around and futzed with) is probably not very traditional. It has soy sauce, olive oil, orange and lime juices, cilantro or basil, thai chili sauce and garlic. I hate that red cocktail sauce for shrimp and this is a great alternative.
Here’s a link for the pear tart recipe – it’s the best one I’ve ever made and I get tons of compliments on it.
http://www.recipe.com/orchard-pear-tart/
Merette~
I cannot stomach the rampant American commercialism and the “mandate” that everyone MUST have a wonderful time. Sorry if I sound like a scrooge….
Awww you don’t sound like a Scrooge, ok well maybe a small one
But I am right there with ya for the most part. This year there was Christmas decoration in the stores right along side the Halloween decorations and it pissed me off! Quit shoving it down my throat already
I love, love, love to give gifts to those that I know well. I shop a lot online and at antique stores and little specialty stores for any gift giving occasion and it brings me a lot of joy to give someone something that surprises them and that they (hopefully!) really like. I also like decorations
I like tablescapes too. Lat year, however, we didn’t even put up a tree. We had added to our feline family and I just was not looking forward to fighting with that and risking losing ornaments to the kittens climbing the tree. Hubs and I went out to a couple of our large pines, did some “pruning” and I decorated the mantle and bookshelves in our family room with pine, some of our ornaments, and our stockings. I added fresh pine and pine cones in other parts of the house, made our fresh pine wreath and kissing balls for our front porch, I turned on our candles (battery operated) on in each of our windows and with the snow outside and the fire in, it was perfect. I toyed with the idea of no Christmas tree again, but Web Boy is off to DC to finishes his degrees and who knows what the future Christmases will hold so I am going all out with decoration this year.
Your days sounds no stress and perfect! I am with you on the no football thing, lol. Actually I am the only one in my house that likes football, so it isn’t watched a whole lot. Movies will be on the agenda to be sure.
Casper~
I love my family and am ever so grateful for them but I will be glad when it’s Thanks-Friday and my house is somewhat back to normal. It’s in those quiet moments I reflect on the many reasons I am thankful — Which always reminds me of my sweet mother whose greatest teaching was the saying “I cried because I had no shoes until I met the man who had no feet.” She was a wise woman, my mom.
I love that, thank you
After my bitchiness last week, i have resolved to have a Happy Thanksgiving. We will have 13 including my new little grandson for whom we are all very thankful. We will have turkey, stuffing the way my grandmother made it, mashed sweet potatoes, mashed while potatoes, green beans, pumpkin pie that I buy because I don’t bake, and cranberry sauce, both jelled and with berries. For some reason, we never break it up after I comes out of the can and my kids (now grown) expect it to be served that way. My daughter in law is bring a pumpkin cheesecake she makes herself. We still don’t know what time we are eating because I don’t know what time my brother has to go to work. My favorite part the past few years has been when the kids come back over after they have eaten at everyone elses house and we have game night. Just hanging out and playing Cranium or a similar game. Saturday we will go to my husband’s sisters house for round 2. I don’t know why I get myself so worked up about the holidays. I guess because we NEVER had good holidays when I was a kid or teenager. I always end up having a good day, no matter what. Happy Thanksgiving to all.
maureen~
Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday, and we do it big. We have 47 at the table so far and there are usually a couple more that show up that day. My hubby will be deep-frying 8 turkeys that day, he does three or four for our house and then friends ask him to do it for their homes. They’re delicious, only take about 45 minutes for an 18 pound turkey! Everyone helps out and brings all the usual faire, I make a great potato casserole that people are scraping the dish. My sister is a fabulous baker and makes pumpkin and apple pie, which I usually enjoy the day after, because I’m too stuffed to eat any on Thanksgiving.
That sounds wonderful for someone that loves the holiday
Party BIG! The deep fried turkey was very popular when we lived in South Florida. I never did ever get to taste one though. One of these days!
Enjoy
#27Giddy from the Heat
Hate to post again so quickly, but Joanna, about gifts you hate: I hate having to buy or feeling like I have to buy gifts for the people on the team I manage.
I mean, 14 people! And try finding something for only $5 a piece.
Suggestions welcome!
Giddy,
I wonder if you could make $5 individual donations in each person’s name to a homeless shelter or women’s shelter in your area. Then, you could buy a box of nice holiday cards and put a note or little card inside telling each one that $5 has been donated to ——– in their name.
OR – if you think that may not be an option, you can always go to Borders and get them gift certificates for $5 – that way they can apply it to a book or CD.
#39 BohemianMoon
Hubs and I went out to a couple of our large pines, did some “pruning” and I decorated the mantle and bookshelves in our family room with pine, some of our ornaments, and our stockings. I added fresh pine and pine cones in other parts of the house, made our fresh pine wreath and kissing balls for our front porch, I turned on our candles (battery operated) on in each of our windows and with the snow outside and the fire in, it was perfect.
Moon,
Now that sounds nice!!! Simple and natural!!!! Sounds perfect. I am a “selective scrooge.”
Chrissy~
I hate the dreaded green vegetable course – it’s always like the unwanted relative at the table.
Bwahhahahahahah! OMG! That cracked me the hell up (breath), ahhhh I needed that
I love green beans – fresh/fresh frozen not frozen. Damn I ate them out of our garden from August on and then froze a good deal of them. Son and I love em, Hub tolerates them. Actually I like most green veggies – Hubs not so much, so there is always a balance to be struck.
ponzu sauce is a Japanese citrus sauce although I think my recipe (which has been passed around and futzed with) is probably not very traditional. It has soy sauce, olive oil, orange and lime juices, cilantro or basil, thai chili sauce and garlic. I hate that red cocktail sauce for shrimp and this is a great alternative.
Now this sounds lovely. I happen to like cocktail sauce (the spicier the better, though), but this sauce sounds like a lovely alternative and I think I will give it a whirl this week as I have everything for it in my fridge/pantry as we speak.
The pear tart sounds great and a winner for Christmas along with my traditional desserts.
Merette ~
Great idea – the gift certificates! If anyone is as lazy as I am, another good source for GC’s is Amazon (via Moon’s site of course).
#27Giddy from the Heat
……. have to buy gifts for the people on the team I manage.
I mean, 14 people! And try finding something for only $5 a piece.
Suggestions welcome!
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Giddy~ I don’t know if these would be appropriate, or if you know anything about them but I saw something I would love to have for $4.99 -and I don’t want much these days!
Ok, don’t laugh- called the Salad Blaster Bowl…come on you said you wouldn’t laugh!
Plastic round bowl for personal sized salad, but, the lid has storage for the dressing. *Genius* but I have been known to pull a bottle of dressing out of my handbag so this would impress me. Handy for the office. You could buy a bag of Halloween like pre-wrapped candy bars, drop a couple in each bowl, slap a big red bow on it , and done. Google Salad Blaster Bowl Macys.
This year is going to be different because my daughters who work in the health care field have to work this Thanksgiving. Husband has to work to because the company he works for is very small and most of the guys want off Monday for deer season. This year Thanksgiving will be held on Saturday.
Most of our Thanksgiving’s started off with watching the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade while preparing the dinner. The traditional dinner for us includes turkey and a small ham. (Some don’t like turkey) stuffing, mashed potatoes, gravy, a veggie, coleslaw, dinner rolls. I always buy that jellied cranberry sauce from the can….I know I know! My grandson loves that stuff and eats the hell outta it. He could eat the whole can himself. I provide the main dinner and I leave the desserts up to my guests. I HATE making pies. Then when everyone is done eating and thing are cleaned up we pop in a movie and gorge on desserts. We usually watch Christmas Vacation with the Grisswolds or Christmas Story with Ralphie.(You’ll shoot your eye out) We have a blast because my daughters and niece’s know most of the words of those two movies by heart and their screaming them out and laughing. Uh!!! Good Times.
#20Joanna
#13Linda
I for sure want your cheesecake recipe. I’ve never made one before so I’m a little nervous. Please don’t forget…..Joanna is waiting
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I got this recipe when we lived in NY in 1970, ‘71. It is THE only recipe I ever use/will use, for cheese cake. Be forewarned, it’s heavy, nothing lite or low cal/low fat about it. (unless you choose to ruin it by using lowfat crap to make it, LOL)
New York Style Cheesecake
1 lb. ricotta cheese
1 lb. cream cheese
1 1/2 C sugar
4 eggs beaten lightly
1 1/2 T. fresh lemon juice
2 t. vanilla
3 T cornstarch and 3 T AP flour mixed together
1/4 lb. butter, melted
1 pt. sour cream
Cream the cheeses in bowl w/mixer til blended. (If you have a stand mixer, I’d use it) Continue beating and gradually add the sugar, then the eggs. Beat well. Continue beating and add lemon juice. Gradually add to the Cornstarch/Flour mixture to batter, while beating. Add vanilla and melted butter. Beat until smooth and then FOLD in the sour cream. Pour batter into a 9 in. spring form pan, at least 3 in. deep.
Bake in 325-350 deg. oven for 1.5 hrs. or until a 1 in. golden ring forms around the top. Then turn off oven and allow cake to stand in the oven to set for 1.5 hrs. Cool outside oven and once completely cooled, remove the spring form. Chill in refrig. I keep it covered w/plastic wrap after it ’sets’ in the frig for awhile.
This one truly gets better each day it sits in the frig., especially once it’s been cut into. My fav slice is always the last one! LOL. Being a purist, I don’t use a glaze or topping, but I’m sure you can find all kinds of toppings, recipes if you want them, online.
20Joanna
#13Linda
I for sure want your cheesecake recipe. I’ve never made one before so I’m a little nervous. Please don’t forget…..Joanna is waiting
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I just realized you posted you were making your home made cheese cake in #16….was that a ‘yet to be determined’ home made cheese cake, LOL? That is the one nice thing about this recipe, it’s better to make it a few days in advance.
And now you know what my family knows-
I have reached Level 10 playing ” Queen of under 5 bucks a Gift” game.
*Christmas ornaments-substitute a ribbon from the ridiculously cheap but long roll you bought at…IDK, Michael’s..for the hook, they can cut it off if they hate it.
*tree seedlings in pots- only need a ribbon
*boxed note-cards-available last year @ Christmas Tree Shop. Even I am embarrassed how cheap they were. But they were a huge hit because they had initials on them.
*roasted spiced nuts- made quickly in huge amounts, thrown in crinkly bags, tied with something
I have to keep studying…2 test tomorrow, 2 papers due before Tuesday. I’ll get back to you.
I love Thanksgiving
I love Christmas too
And screw Martha’s staff and the horse they rode in on, those homemade gifts they promote cost as much to make as new curtains. Plus I’m busy and not talented and don’t own all that stuff. I almost killed myself with a glue gun once.
Bridge Cake.
Store bought pound cake sliced and cubed
Hersheys chocolate bars with almonds broken up and spread over the cake.
Hot Custard poured over. Set long enough not to be soupy.
No Martha Stewart here. Moon I’m exhausted just thinking of your cooking. Very impressive.
In # 24, and # 49, soften the cream cheeses. Everything goes together better if it’s room temp.
#51 NonTraditionalStudent
And screw Martha’s staff and the horse they rode in on, those homemade gifts they promote cost as much to make as new curtains. Plus I’m busy and not talented and don’t own all that stuff. I almost killed myself with a glue gun once.
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BWHAHAHAHAH, whew, BWHHAHAHAHAH KIilled by a glue gun…BWHAHAHA, LOVED it!
#52Wendy
Bridge Cake.
Store bought pound cake sliced and cubed
Hersheys chocolate bars with almonds broken up and spread over the cake.
Hot Custard poured over. Set long enough not to be soupy.
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I make a triffle almost exactly like this…the pound cake, alternating w/layers of chocolate pudding, whipped cream, Heath Bars instead of the Hersheys w/almonds, then another ’round’ of the same. It’s good, and easy to throw together, for feeding a crowd.
All of you are getting me in the Thanksgiving dinner mood with the menus and recipes!
We usually have a traditional dinner at the cabin up north, but have alot of work this year, so will be home.
I’d like to go downtown for the parade or to the football game and see the Lions lose. However, I think those activities are for those that can return home to dinner all prepared and waiting.
So comfy clothes, dinner and Christmas movies(thanks jeanette!) sound like a plan.
jeanette~
Saturday is as good of a day as any
It isn’t the day, it is the company one enjoys on whatever day one celebrates!
I always buy that jellied cranberry sauce from the can….I know I know! My grandson loves that stuff and eats the hell outta it. He could eat the whole can himself.
I don’t make sauce from scratch – the kid does. Previous to that I would buy the Ocean Spray canned cranberry sauce with chunks of cranberry. That is what my family always had growing up. My mother loves the stuff and so does my kid. I don’t like it at all ’cause I don’t like cranberries!
Then when everyone is done eating and thing are cleaned up we pop in a movie and gorge on desserts. We usually watch Christmas Vacation with the Grisswolds or Christmas Story with Ralphie.(You’ll shoot your eye out) We have a blast because my daughters and niece’s know most of the words of those two movies by heart and their screaming them out and laughing.
Sounds like fun and great memory making! As we don’t really watch football we watch movies (Braveheart always) or if there is an interesting marathon on TV we may tune in. The first Thanksgiving Hubs was here (before he was Hubs and just visiting from Scotland) we watched an entire two season marathon of “The Deadliest Catch” – it was fun but then we all wanted snow crab instead of turkey!
Non traditional student~
*tree seedlings in pots- only need a ribbon
*roasted spiced nuts- made quickly in huge amounts, thrown in crinkly bags, tied with something
I love these two in particular. Love the seedling – it is such a hope filled gift – there is nothing like nurturing the growth of a tree!
I love the nuts because DAMN, I love those things! YUM!
Wendy~
Store bought pound cake sliced and cubed
Hersheys chocolate bars with almonds broken up and spread over the cake.
Hot Custard poured over. Set long enough not to be soupy.
This sounds great!
And will be something we make soon – easy peasy and good. Does the heat of the custard (yum I love custard) melt the chocolate completely?
Moon I’m exhausted just thinking of your cooking. Very impressive.
Oh please, do not be impressed, lol, I am hardly Martha. I don’t even really LIKE to cook, except for baking – I have just been doing it so long that it usually comes out well.
I would much rather decorate than cook!
Chicken Cheese Chowder, it has nummy nums in it. Fresh baked herb bread for dunking, I take my time with that baking. Bread has to have your hands in it to impart the spirit.
Lots of watching tv (there’s a House marathon!) I might also bake my special bread pudding, with raisins soaked in rum.
We don’t observe the “holiday” as such, but we do eat well. Tv and Netflix and four-day holiday for the win!
NonTraditional Student~
And screw Martha’s staff and the horse they rode in on, those homemade gifts they promote cost as much to make as new curtains. Plus I’m busy and not talented and don’t own all that stuff. I almost killed myself with a glue gun once.
AWESOME QUOTE! BWAhhahahahahahahah! That was really good
I admit I love handmade gifts and yes, many times it is much more expensive, but sometimes with some low cost materials and some time, one can make some pretty cool stuff. I am going to have a thread in a few days about in expensive handmade gifts for the holidays.
Good Lord I am still laughing, that cracked me up
Linda~
I make a triffle almost exactly like this…the pound cake, alternating w/layers of chocolate pudding, whipped cream, Heath Bars instead of the Hersheys w/almonds, then another ’round’ of the same. It’s good, and easy to throw together, for feeding a crowd.
That sounds great as well
I got a Scotsman and he likes his triffle!
Just to say, I used to do that “if I don’t have the table centerpiece ordered by two-weeks before, it won’t be done!” I did the round-robin open house, everyone welcome crap.
I hated it. I was exhausted by Thanksgiving, and then we had the xmas thing coming up, which was even worse. My husband (nuke pilot) was never home, but since he was commander, I was expected to do many things… I made bags of treats for every person under his command, had to disperse them. I had to have my house decorated and ready for “open house” drop-ins, including the Base Commander.
All on top of getting my kids’ xmas done, all on my own.
No wonder I went on anti-depressants and mood stabilizers later.
I no longer do xmas or thanksgiving. I just enjoy life now.
SharnaPax~
Chicken Cheese Chowder, it has nummy nums in it. Fresh baked herb bread for dunking, I take my time with that baking. Bread has to have your hands in it to impart the spirit.
That sounds lovely. I love chowders and I make a mean Ham/corn/potato chowder
I also agree about the bread. Homemade bread is the best and I make it pretty often in the winter. What is your favorite bread to make?
Lots of watching tv (there’s a House marathon!) I might also bake my special bread pudding, with raisins soaked in rum.
RUH-RO. Now I know what will be on at least part of the day. House is Hubs’ favorite show. Now add in a Bones marathon and both Hubs and son would be in heaven!
Moon, my favorite bread to make is my own herb-cheese bread … get my hands down in it, take out frustrations, beat it, knead it. Then treat it like a baby as it rises. It is the best. I use garlic and Parmesan to the extreme, but people love it.
Having lived in NY (your state!) for five years, everytime it snows or turns the wee bit cold down here, I must bake bread.
SharnaPax~
I no longer do xmas or thanksgiving. I just enjoy life now.
LOVE IT!
I never buy centerpieces, I always make my own with either something off of our land or with some grocers flowers or a combo of both.
MMM, your chowder sounds lovely. Would you mind a recipe exchange on here?
SharnaPax~
my favorite bread to make is my own herb-cheese bread … get my hands down in it, take out frustrations, beat it, knead it. Then treat it like a baby as it rises. It is the best. I use garlic and Parmesan to the extreme, but people love it.
A woman after my own heart! This is exactly IT. Making bread is wonderful tonic for frustrations!
I don’t bake bread during the spring or summer for the most part, but I make loaves and freeze them during winter and fall. We have had such a mild fall thus far, the only hearty fall menu I have made is my glazed meatloaf, fresh mashed taters and maple carrots. I am happy though we have had mild weather. We were under two feet of snow this time last year.
I lived in Rome, NY for five years, both my kids were born there. I’ve been to Watertown many, many times. Are you around about there, without giving much away? (lol)
SharnaPax~
MMM, your chowder sounds lovely. Would you mind a recipe exchange on here?
Not at ALL, it would be great. I will open a thread tomorrow:)
SharnaPax~
I lived in Rome, NY for five years, both my kids were born there. I’ve been to Watertown many, many times. Are you around about there, without giving much away? (lol)
Most people know where I live, or close anyway. I am in the Finger Lakes about 22 miles (or so) outside of Rochester.
Omigosh, recipes. If you divulge your chowder recipe, I will give up my herb-cheese bread.
My mother-in-law is hosting Thanksgiving and my side of the family (especially my mom) is thrilled because it gives them a break this year. We are doing the traditional menu: turkey, dressing, mashed potatoes, pumpkin pie, etc. I am making the dressing because although my MIL is “hosting” the meal, she is trying to delegate all the food preparation. Usually my grandmother and great-grandmother (yep, you read correctly…she’ll be 100 in Feb.) make the dressing, but I’m not putting them in the position to feel obligated, so I am going to make it. My dad is making his Jamaican jerk green beans because we all hate green bean casserole!
I had signed up to take dessert for my son’s preschool Thanksgiving feast tomorrow, so the kids and I made pumpkin chocolate chip muffins today. I’ve been making them for a few years now, but it was so fun letting them help me this year. We had a blast with them standing on their step stools taking turns getting to add ingredients. My husband said it looks like we have started a new tradition. It was a lot of fun. Anyway, I made a double batch, so hopefully there are enough for both tomorrow and Thursday. They are really good and I went ahead and let the kids have one each after dinner, so I may be whipping up another batch before Thursday if we can’t keep our hands off of them!
We are also getting back into our old tradition of running the 5K Turkey Trot. I’m going to run it and my parents will walk and push the kids in the double stroller. My mother-in-law was bummed when I told her I was doing the run because she needed me to help her cook the turkey. I offered up my husband’s services since he doesn’t want the do the run. Besides, how much help do you need to cook a turkey?? Someone to open the oven door for you?!?!
Oh, I forgot…wine. And plenty of it. You know, I finally thought of a benefit to having the MIL living 3 minutes away. I could actually WALK home if I needed to. Hmmm…
(just kidding, of course)
And a recipe exchange sounds wonderful!! I love to bake, but I’m not much of a cook. I need all the help I can get in that department.
Ah, my daughter’s first surgeon was in Rochester. That’s a cute story if you don’t mind.
She was born with a cleft soft palate, had to endure several operations. The first surgeon we were sent to was in Rochester, a very hoity-toity foo-foo place. She was three-months old, I dressed her up in lace and a bow stuck on her bald head.
I was dandling her on my knee, cutsy wootsy. She looked adorable. Until she farted. I don’t mean a cute little baby poot, this child cut a big one, a ripper that lasted ten seconds.
And then she laughed, that adorable baby laugh. Posh people in the waiting room for this so-expensive plastic surgeon lowered their newspapers and magazines and looked right at me.
All I could do was point at her and smile.
My daughter has been in love with farts ever since.
My mom usually has Thanksgiving but we’ve started the tradition of making a “pre Thanksgiving” dinner a few days before for just me, dh, and the kids
We had turkey, my homemade stuffing (well Mrs. Cubbison helped
), green bean casserole (this is my favorite!!!) I use cream of celery soup, sour cream, jack cheese and of course the French’s fried onions. The cheese really gives it a kick!
I HATE to cook but I think it’s because I just suck at it…LOL (the line in our house is that mommy makes her famous “toast” dinner….I feel very Peg Bundy sometimes…).
Tonight was our pre-Thanksgiving dinner
Then of course we had mashed potatoes and the famous brown and serve rolls.
I would love a recipe exchange
Anyway….you are all making my mouth water with your wonderful recipes
Can I just say that I am thankful for Musings and all the witty, intelligent, kind, empathetic women and (men?) we have here
SharnaPax~
I never mind, I LOVE stories (ask Four)
She was born with a cleft soft palate, had to endure several operations. The first surgeon we were sent to was in Rochester, a very hoity-toity foo-foo place. She was three-months old, I dressed her up in lace and a bow stuck on her bald head.
I was dandling her on my knee, cutsy wootsy. She looked adorable. Until she farted. I don’t mean a cute little baby poot, this child cut a big one, a ripper that lasted ten seconds.
And then she laughed, that adorable baby laugh. Posh people in the waiting room for this so-expensive plastic surgeon lowered their newspapers and magazines and looked right at me.
All I could do was point at her and smile.
My daughter has been in love with farts ever since.
And that one was priceless! OMG, too funny, I love it!
Kat~
Your day sounds great and I hope that you will put your muffin recipe in the forthcoming recipe thread
And any early B-day wish for your soon to be centenarian, that is awesome:)
judy~
I would love a recipe exchange
I HATE to cook but I think it’s because I just suck at it…LOL (the line in our house is that mommy makes her famous “toast” dinner….I feel very Peg Bundy sometimes…).
Ok, spill it sister, what is the “toast dinner”?
This will be hubs and my first Turkey Day together since 2006 (Christmas will be a first as well!).
Just the two of us, so a small turkey breast and the trimmings. BoMo-I liked your mention of the Waldorf Salad and think I may go that route. I am from people whose holiday salad was usually fruit cocktail, sliced bananas and cool whip, viola’–fruit salad.
And that has gotten rather boring,IMO. So thanks for sharing your turkey day menu!
#49Linda ~
Linda, thanks so much for the cheesecake recipe. It sounds like heaven.
This is my favorite holiday (sorry native americans). I do understand why so many of you find no joy in this day. I LOVE to cook and I love having all my family around.
We have all the traditional foods plus a pasta dish. I’m Italian and pasta with Thanksgiving and Christmas dinner is our tradition. This year it’s lasagna with spinach because my 6 year old grandaughter requested it. And whatever Syd wants, Syd gets. She’s the only girl after many boys. To all you Musers ——Pleasant Day.
I never posted here before but I am an avid reader/lurker. You all make my day on a regular basis. Having my husbands family again this year, 11 of us this time around. My Thanksgiving dinner is kinda boring compared yours! Turkey, sausage stuffing but no fruit in it, mashed potatoes, (I bake mine instead of boil and scoop out the insides and do the mash thing), my homemade gravy, store bought potato bread rolls (a family fave) and Ocean spray jellied cranberry sauce from a can! my sil is making the dreaded green bean casserole thingy my family wont eat and sweet potatoes. kinda boring menu but oh so delish. I look forward to this all year long. NOT looking forward to Christmas. My youngest is looking forward to waking up and smelling the roasting bird in the oven. Heaven. Happiest of Thanksgivings to all of you. One of the many things I am thankful for this year is this blog. Funny, intelligent, insightful people on this board. I enjoy it soooo much.
My oldest is going to be with her father and his family this year and we decided to stay home. So it’s me and himself and the 2 little girls so shortcuts may be taken. My darling is in charge of the turkey it’s just easier as he’ll try to take it over anyway I got myself a lovely bottle of shiraz so he can do what he wants.
However we will not skimp on the table–I have my gram’s china it’s from Japan and came from grampa’s best friend who was stationed there after WWII so it’s pretty old. The little girls get their plates but we get the fancy stuff. My aunt copied my gram’s handwriting onto a card she wrote to me when I got it 18 years ago. I am tearing up thinking about it now–miss my gram and grampa still but they’re with me every day.
Funny side story we also have their bed and vanity my teenager has in her room and she’s convinced there’s been nights she’s got someone sitting next to her in the bed. How cool!!
I have a great after Thanksgiving sandwich that you can make with your Turkey and cranberry sauce..
It is called the Turkey Special.
-Italian rolls, cut French bread, bulkie rolls..whatever. Put on cookie sheet. Preheat oven to 350 deg F
-Take some mayo (or miracle whip) and some cranberry sauce, mix together. That is your cranberry mayo. Spread on your bread
-Layer thin sliced turkey, then Muenster cheese, and cooked bacon slices (1 or 2). On other side put thin sliced red onions.
-Put in oven until cheese is melted.
- On the onion side..put butter or romaine or red leaf lettuce, and two slices of tomato
Put together and enjoy.
This is hubs favorite sandwich of all time.
If you want it off season (non turkey time) just buy some sliced turkey at the deli..we like the honey roasted turkey. Gives sandwich a kick.
MaryAnn,
My family (now and growing up) never really treated Thanksgiving as a day to give thanks or the Pilgrims or anything.
It was the kick start of the holiday season, you got to eat a really good meal with all your favs that are only made that time of year, and you get to spend time with your family because you have the weekend off.
We have this feast. Then we have a traditional Italian Christmas Eve Feast, the Christmas feast.. I love the seafood feast on Eve. Some years it is not as bountiful because of money but we always have it one way or another.
Thanks everyone for such great stories about Thanksgiving.
Moon- just wondering what you meant by
… in fresh orange “cups”
27 LBS !!!!!! WOW! Wait till my mother finds out such a thing exists. She will be so jellus. When I was a kid she searched high and low for the biggest Thanksgiving turkey she could find for our family of 8. The biggest I remember was 23+ and she tried every year to top it.
Heidi,
Oh yes, the Christmas Eve seven fishes feast. I used to love it as a kid. We lived in South Philly and every year my grandmother would spend days preparing for that night. We would go shopping at the Italian market on 9th street. All the aunts and uncles and cousins would show up. Things changed after the grandparents passed. Everyone moved out of the city and spread out. I’m just so grateful to have my own little family to celebrate with. I wish you all the best.
75SharnaPax
Ah, my daughter’s first surgeon was in Rochester. That’s a cute story if you don’t mind.
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Cute story…loved it!
Heidi – Samich sounds delish…have printed it out. Dtr. always sends me home w/lots of leftovers. I am happy with turkey and dressing samich w/mayo, on toast preferably.
Heidi & Maryann
My ex-SIL is 100-goes back to Italy to visit relatives-Italian. I’ve been to a few x-mas eves at her home and OMG it was just delish! There would also be spaghetti and wine…homemade, of course, from nonna’s garden.
I didn’t realize it was called the seven fishes, but yeah, there were had to be seven different seafoods italian style.
I always watch a movie called Home for the Holidays with Robert Downey Jr. There is a line in the movie that says basically that you don’t have to like your relatives but you still love them. It is dysfunction at it’s best. Always makes me feel better about my family. I had totally sort of forgotten but when my kids were smaller, we used to be in the Channel 6 Philadelphia parade. I didn’t realize how much fun it was at the time because we had to get up at like 3:00 a.m. to do it but looking back, it was a blast. The kids were on floats with Mr. Belvedere, Miss America, Boys to Men, Corky from Life Goes On, Vinny from Doogie Houser and the list goes on. We still watch the parade but it isn’t the same. I really should go get the tapes out and show them during the day.
Moon, toast dinner is just as it sounds…LOL It usually is offered when dh gets home late or I eat later than the kids and want something quick and simple. It’s usually slightly burnt sourdough toast with butter….sometimes cinnamon sugar
I honestly cannot cook. I probably could if I enjoyed it more but I simply don’t. DH has taken over cooking dinner for the kids. I am so grateful he does this. I make them breakfast and lunch and snacks of course. I just don’t like all the planning and I tend to be a picky eater. (My mother was VERY controlling growing up and we had to finish everything on our plates….and it was rarely something I liked)
Judy~ I don’t consider myself a good cook either. Mainly because I` am just an old-type counrty cook. Fried chicken, gravy, biscuits, meatloaf, mashed potaoes, fried potatoes, pot roast, corn bread and beans. I think you get my drift.
Seems as if today, my son and his family are so into healthy cooking , that I just don’t delight in fixing big meals any longer. Besides, my son is a fabulous cook and all the family would rather have his food than mine. Can’t say that I blame them !
I guess at my age I feel that I have earned a break. I simply do not enjoy food that much, have a small appetite, and am picky to boot.
Hey Linda ~~
I forgot to ask you. Do you make a graham cracker crust for your cheesecake?
#33BohemianMoon
Moon ~~ Here’s my Beef Stroganoff recipe:
6 TBLS butter
1/2 cup chopped onion
1/4 c flour
2 lbs sirloin steak, cut in 1/2 x 2 inch strips
1 1/2 tsp salt
1/8 tsp pepper
1/2 cup water
1 can cream of mushroom soup
1 can (4 oz) mushroom stems and pieces, UNDRAINED
1 cup sour cream
Melt butter in large skillet. Add onions.
Put flour in plastic bag and shake meat strips in flour until coated. Add meat to onions and cook and stir until browned.
Add salt, pepper and water. Cook and simmer gently until almost tender, 45 minutes to an hour, stirring occasionally.
Add soup and mushrooms; stir to mix. Cook gently until beef is tender, about 30 minutes.
~~~Serve over Poppy Seed Noodles ~~~
Poppy Seed Noodles
1 (12 oz) pkg wide egg noodles (I love the Amish made noodles)
1/4 c butter
1 TBLS poppy seeds
1/3 c slivered almonds
Cook noodles as directed on package. Drain.
Melt butter; add poppy seeds and almonds, mixing well.
Pour over noodles and toss lightly to mix.
MeadowMom~
Welcome to Musings~
Moon- just wondering what you meant by
… in fresh orange “cups”
I use large navel oranges, cut them in half and hollow out the cups, taking out the pulp. I use the juice and some of the pulp in my sweet potato mash along with the other ingredients. I then put the mash in the cups of the oranges and bake for about 20 minutes (I have already cooked the sweet potatoes in the microwave) – I sprinkle with a dusting of nutmeg and we are good to go. They are not overly sweet at all.
#27Giddy from the Heat
“I hate having to buy or feeling like I have to buy gifts for the people on the team I manage.
I mean, 14 people! And try finding something for only $5 a piece.
Suggestions welcome!”
Giddy – I hear you – my hubs managed the Gaming office at Foxwoods for a number of years and had the same dilemma. The budget was a bit bigger per person but the problem of individual gifts was as aggravating (for me, since guess who got stuck with it?!)
So, this is what we did. Took the gift budget, added to it and made a contribution to the local food bank. Then, each person got a holiday card with a note “a donation has been given to the Norwich Food Bank from our office”.
And then I sent in a cookie platter and one of my famous cheesecakes for their holiday luncheon.
Everyone seemed rather relieved (and no one had the nerve to complain if they didn’t like it).
joy~
Welcome to Musings and thanks for coming out of lurkdom to share
We are glad you are here!
95Joanna
Hey Linda ~~
I forgot to ask you. Do you make a graham cracker crust for your cheesecake?
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NO! NO! LOL….that’s what makes it (somewhat) a NY style cheesecake…no crust. Trust me, it will turn out great!
#100Linda
OK, Linda, thanks. I’m going to make it on Wednesday for Friday’s dinner so I’ll let you know how it turns out. I can’t wait
Joanna~
Your recipe doesn’t vary that much from mine except I use fresh mushrooms and saute them. I also use beef broth as well as tarragon and a tiny bit of nutmeg (that fall flavor thing of mine).
I love the poppy seed noodle thing and am definitely going to try that
Thanks!
You guys all sound like such great cooks. I can’t bake to save my life and my cooking skills are terribly lacking as well. Funny thing, all three of my kids are good cooks. When there are family functions and I ask if I can bring something, it is usually “soda” I am jellus.
17 people
6 (large) dogs
1 really large turkey with traditional trimmings
total chaos
Fortunately all I have to do is show up with a pumpkin pie and a couple of easy vegetable side dishes (corn pudding, and green beans with pecans and a lemon vinaigrette). I like Thanksgiving mainly because I have such fond memories from when I was a child and we would go to my paternal grandparents in West Winfield, NY (population about 600), where there would be about 28 people (just aunts, uncles, grandparents, and cousins).
#103 Jerzgurl822
I used to say the same thing about myself…it’s simply not true. Watch as much Food Network as you can for a period of time, it will spur you on, it did me! Anyone can follow a recipe. Once you get comfortable w/that particular dish, then you can start adding your own personal touches to it. You don’t have to have a big ‘repetoire’ of dishes, just those that you love cooking/baking and everyone loves eating!
I am Canadian and so Thanksgiving is already over with. We follow Martha Stewart recipes for our dinner – brine turkey, roasted brussel sprouts with lemon/walnut topping, pecan sage stuffing, twice baked potatoes, cheese bread and apple pie. Hoping our sister American tv stations put on some good holiday movies – gosh, I miss real tv, would be very happy watching the holiday episodes of I love Lucy, The Honeymooners, The Waltons, etc. Our favourite movie is also the Christmas Story, Ralphie don’t shoot your eye out! Happy Thanksgiving to you all.
The original Miracle on 34th Street and Christmas Story are the two must watch holiday movies in our family. We also have a Scalloped Pineapple recipe that one of us makes for every holiday meal.
1 cup butter or margarine
2 cups sugar
4 eggs beaten
1/4 cup milk
4 cups white bread crumbs (run bread slices through blender for quick prep)
1 – 20 oz. can crushed pineapple (do Not drain)
Cream together butter, sugar, eggs and then mix all ingredients
together. Put in buttered 13×9 baking pan and bake at 375 deg. for 15 minutes. Reduce heat to 350 deg. and bake for 1 hour. Serves 8+ and can be served hot or cold with main meal or as a dessert.
If you’re trying to prepare ahead of time here is a great mashed potato recipe that will keep up to 10 days in the refrigerator.
5 lbs. potatoes (8-10)
8 oz. Philadelphia Cream cheese
1 cup sour cream (1 carton)
salt & pepper to taste (1 tbsp salt)
Boil potatoes. While hot mash & add cream cheese, sour cream, salt & pepper. Put 1n 13×9 buttered pan or casserole. Dot generously with butter and cover with foil. Bake uncovered at 325 deg. for 25 minutes. (Until potatoes are warmed through and through).
I love stupid green bean casserole. I’m eating some now. Screw this dumb holiday.
LINDA ~~
Hey Linda, me again. I have two last questions for you about the cheesecake. Do you grease the springform pan and how do you get the bottom part of the pan off the cheesecake??
Jeez…I’m such a baby and I apologize.
#108Pat
Pat, I hope you’re feeling better today. Yes, I’m a big time lurker on your site
#106 ruralmom -
” We follow Martha Stewart recipes for our dinner”
Heh. This reminds me of the year I decided to give ole Martha a try and followed her recipe for cheesecloth turkey. It called (as best I can remember) for a big hank of cheesecloth, a bottle of wine and a pound of butter.
So, melted the butter together with wine in a big pot, then soaked the cloth in it. Put the turkey in its pan, s & p’d it, slapped the cheesecloth over it, put it in the oven.
Then it had to be basted every half hour till done. Which I did, faithfully.
The result? Possibly the most beautiful turkey I’d ever seen. It was a rich brown in color. Elegant.
But, when you tapped it, it was like it was encased in lacquer. Not liquor. Lacquer. Hard lacquer.
And the oddest thing? There wasn’t one ounce of drippings in the pan. Not one. Had to open canned gravy.
Thanks, Martha.
Moon, I think we need a Musers’ Cookbook!
Does anybody know how to make homemade gravy? My mom made the best ever but she never wrote the recipe down. Thanks
109Joanna
LINDA ~~
Hey Linda, me again. I have two last questions for you about the cheesecake. Do you grease the springform pan and how do you get the bottom part of the pan off the cheesecake??
Jeez…I’m such a baby and I apologize.
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No, you don’t grease the pan. As for getting it off the bottom, you have a springform pan and realize how they work, right? The side ‘pops’ off when you unclasp it. (BTW, I LOVE the pieces/parts left on the inside of the ring when it’s finally removed.) I just keep the cheese cake on the bottom of the pan, until it’s gone. You can still put it on a plate, or whatever you want to place it on for serving. I’ve not figured out a way, nor have I ever tried to get the whole cake off the bottom, I’ve always been afraid to. I guess once it’s set up in the frig for awhile, you could try inverting it on a plate, but I don’t guarantee it will stay in one piece. Plus, then the bottom of the cake I don’t think ‘looks’ as impressive as the top, and I’d want to put it upright again, and I’d be afraid I’d mess up the top, with all that handling.
I have used this recipe to make smaller cheesecakes for gifts, (again in smaller springform pans, got 3 out of the recipe I think) and I did manage to get the smaller ones off the bottom of pan and even purchased cake boxes from the bakery and put them on doillies in the box. Let me know if you try it, how it goes. BUT, again, I’d not ‘take the chance’ since it’s for company and not just for your immediate family, who of course, wouldn’t mind eating the cake in chunks that may have broken off. I hope you like it, everyone I’ve ever fed it to has loved it and wanted the recipe.
113smallfry
Does anybody know how to make homemade gravy? My mom made the best ever but she never wrote the recipe down. Thanks
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I simmer the ‘innards’ of the turkey, while it’s in the oven, in a pot of water that’s been salt and peppered, on top of the stove for awhile, til it’s all cooked. (Fork tender, the gizzard and heart take longer than the other parts) You can add stalk of celery cut up, and an onion quartered, for more flavor, in with pot of water/the innards, your choice. You’ll use the broth it makes, for gravy later.
Once the innards are cooked, remove to a plate, set aside and KEEP the ‘broth’.
After the turkey is done, use the drippings and put them in a pan on top of the stove (I use a large fry pan, easier to skim off the fat). Then, skim as much “fat” off the drippings as you can. I SWEAR by cornstarch mixed with flour, and I ALWAYS dissolve the flour in a cup of COLD water, adding the cornstarch to the water, not the water on top of the cornstarch. Stir that up till smooth. Depending on how much gravy you want, add some of the broth to the drippings and simmer on stove top. Then add a bit of the cornstarched water to the pan, while stirring, and wait a few min. to see the consistency it achieves. Keep adding the cornstarch/water mixture til you achieve the thickness of gravy you like. If you want more gravy, add more of the broth, then of course, more cornstarch water, to thicken.
I then cut up all the innards up (except the neck) and add to my gravy, but some people don’t like them. I love them, kids don’t, but its such a small amt. of cut up innards, that you can just use the gravy and not get any of the other stuff in w/it when you ladle it on your mashed potatoes, dressing, turkey. Also, once the neck is done in the pot of water, removed and cooled a bit, I usually eat that while I’m preparing the turkey and rest of the meal.
I hope this makes sense.
#113smallfry
Does anybody know how to make homemade gravy? My mom made the best ever but she never wrote the recipe down. Thanks
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smallfry~ Do you mean white gravy or turkey gravy?
I SWEAR by cornstarch mixed with flour, and I ALWAYS dissolve the flour in a cup of COLD water
Of course that should be….. I ALWAYS dissolve the CORNSTARCH (nor flour) in a cup of cold water..
#104 KF
We always ate at my maternals grandmom’s. She was such a good cook (compared to my mom), we are (she was) jewish and I think all jewish grandmoms (w/the exception of my mom, God rest her soul) are good cooks. But, it was always very formal, all the fancy china and crystal, etc. We dressed in our church clothes for T’giving and Xmas meals at Nana’s. Even when I cooked the Xmas and T’giving meals when the kids were growing up (and we always lived away from home) I made it pretty formal. But, when I got married (‘65), crystal, china, silver, etc. were typical wedding gifts. Now it seems, the young people don’t seem to invest in that kind of ’stuff or want it’. Those getting married now seem to want different type things, from Crate and Barrel, Pottery Barn, etc. and don’t seem that interested in the fine china, crystal, silver, etc.
Now that my middle dtr. hosts Thanksgiving, we serve ourselves buffet style, on just everyday plates, etc., wear comfortable clothes, and I think I like the more ‘casual’ relaxed ambiance over the more formal setup. Everyone seems to be talking and laughing, all at the same time, as if they’re more comfortable.
#114Linda
Thanks, Linda. I so appreciate your patience with me.
Cornstarch and water……did anyone else play with that as a kid? My mom used to take little bowls and put in cornstarch and water, stir it up and we’d play with it. First it’s solid between your fingers, then it would turn into liquid. It’s such a weird feeling. I spent many a happy hour with that stuff. I did it for my own when they were little.
Moon ~~ Are you going to put up a recipe blog? I’ve got a pumpkin bread recipe that will make you slap your own face.
Gram123~
Turkey Gravy.
Linda~
Sorry I’m confused is it cornstarch and flour?
This sounds like what my mom did.
118Joanna
#114Linda
Thanks, Linda. I so appreciate your patience with me.
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Sweetie, I’m tickled to death to be of help. What 65 y/o mom/grandmom doesn’t love to feel ‘needed’ or useful?
#117Linda
Now that my middle dtr. hosts Thanksgiving, we serve ourselves buffet style, on just everyday plates, etc., wear comfortable clothes, and I think I like the more ‘casual’ relaxed ambiance over the more formal setup. Everyone seems to be talking and laughing, all at the same time, as if they’re more comfortable.
I used to fuss a lot more with all the different foods (I love to cook and especially to bake) and table settings. One Christmas I started prepping early in the morning and by the end of the day realized I’d spent the entire day in the kitchen, even after all the guests had arrived, with the exception of when I sat down to eat dinner, after which I was right back in the kitchen. I changed how I did things from that point, learned to plan better, make stuff in advance, and not make 85 complicated recipes all for one meal, and not be so worried if everything wasn’t “just so.” It’s added years to my life!!
Gram123~
Turkey gravy.
Linda~
I am confused is it cornstarch or flour? Or Both? This sound like the way my mom did it. Wow it would be awesome if I could make. That would make my day/year.
Linda,
I’m confused is it cornstarch or flour? Or both?
Gram123,
turkey gravy.
#123Smallfry
Linda,
I’m confused is it cornstarch or flour? Or both?
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Yeah, I’m sorry I made that first mistake…it’s cornstarch, NOT flour. Some folks swear by flour, but sometimes it ‘lumps’ up on me, that’s never happened to me w/the cornstarch.
Joanna-
please share your pumpkin bread recipe. Would love to try.
Linda-
your recipe sounds like my moms. I think she used flour. But cooking the heart and stuff, I remember now. Thank you.
I’ll probably just hang out with the cats and a can of Chef Boyardee. And then go back to sleep. Holidays SUCK when you’re by yourself (as do most days, actually).
OK, I’m in a wallowing-in-self-pity kind of mood, so I’ll shut up and not inflict any more on you guys.
#125Smallfry
Pumpkin Bread
1 (15oz) can pumpkin puree
4 eggs
1 cup vegetable oil
2/3 cup water
3 cups white sugar
3 1/2 cups all-purpose flour
2 tsp baking soda
1 1/2 tsp salt
1 tsp ground cinnamon
1 tsp ground nutmeg
1/2 tsp ground cloves
1/4 tsp ground ginger
Preheat oven to 350 degrees F. Grease and flour three 7×3 inch loaf pans.
In a large bowl, mix together pumpkin puree, eggs, oil, water and sugar until well blended. In a separate bowl, whisk together the flour, baking soda, salt, cinnamon, nutmeg, cloves and ginger. Stir the dry ingredients into the pumpkin mixture until just blended. Pour into the prepared pans.
Bake for about 50 minutes in the preheated oven. Loaves are done when toothpick inserted in center comes out clean.
This bread gets better with age and also freezes well. I hope you enjoy this as much as I do.
Joanna~
My recipe is almost identical to yours, so I have a question for you. I have been making them in muffin form for the past few years because I gave up on the loaves coming out right. They get too dark on top and did not bake all the way through. As muffins they come out perfectly, so that is what I have been doing. However, this year I want to use my new Wilton mini-pumpkin cake pan. I tried just one batch in the pan and they came out ok. A little darker than I prefer, but I had to leave them in longer to get baked all the way through. Is there a trick I am missing?? If so, please share!
Funny how my recipe is almost exactly the same. I use All Spice and Cardamom in place of the ginger, but otherwise word for word. Also, I add in a cup of semi-sweet mini chocolate chips after all the over ingredients. So, so good!!
#128Kat
Kat, are your loaf pans the dark kind? If so, I think you need to turn the temperature down on the oven about 25 degrees. My pans are lighter in color and they come out perfectly every time.
The chocolate chips sound wonderfully wonderfulish. I’m going to try that this year.
#129 Joanna~
Yes, my new Wilton pan is dark. I lowered it 10 degrees, so I guess it wasn’t enough. I’ll do 25 tomorrow when I make the next batch. Thanks!
I really prefer dark chocolate chips, but I can’t find them in the “mini” size, so I use semi-sweet instead. I personally think the mini chips work better in the bread because it gives a hint of chocolate and is not too overwhelming.
Late to the table, again!
The Thanksgiving day food… If I get my act together, it will start with my monkey bread (cinnamon/ nut pull apart bread). We’ll have it for breakfast and continue munching during the day. Dinner: 8 lb turkey breast, home made gravy, traditional sage stuffing (no added fruit, nuts, meat), cranberries out of the can w/ the ridges, smashed taters, green veggies (maybe fresh green beans & ?), olive bowl, my apple bread (it will be half gone before dinner), rolls (I like the brown & serve ones, but kid only wants the crusty ones from Wegmans bakery), apple pie. Kid make the pie after they get here.
Now for the monkey wrench that gets thrown in. I’m cooking 8 lbs of meat and everything else for two mouths. One of the said mouths belongs to a Vegan – who says… Thanksgiving is said Vegan’s favorite meal of the year… WTF? Other kid and family aren’t coming home, kid has to work on Friday and it’s a 7 hr drive. Vegan and my grand-dogter will drive 7 hr across the state for dinner, leaving Thursday morning/ early afternoon. Normally we eat around 8 pm when they get here. Child will be here earlier this year because child must go to father’s house for dinner. I’ll get to dog sit. Father is leaving town on Friday morning to drive to son’s house. Being Nice person that I am, I must accommodate all others ( grrrr ). So, Vegan, dog and I will eat on Friday. Thursday, I’m getting Chinese takeout, maybe I’ll share it with my grand-dogter. In case you’re wondering, Vegan does not have a Vegan-dog. Dog is on the all RAW diet!
Hope everyone has a relaxing long weekend.
Thanksgiving rolls – For those of you that use brown and serve rolls, or any rolls for Thanksgiving….clearly you have never eaten rolls. You get them in the freezer section of your grocery and you just need to let them rise on Tday, then bake. OMG, they melt in your mouth!!! I discovered them about 8 or 9 yrs. ago, now our family won’t use any other rolls.
HAVE NO idea why the name of the rolls didn’t print…tried to bold it.
SISTER SCHUBERT rolls…to die for!
amyf~
I’ll probably just hang out with the cats and a can of Chef Boyardee. And then go back to sleep. Holidays SUCK when you’re by yourself (as do most days, actually).
OK, I’m in a wallowing-in-self-pity kind of mood, so I’ll shut up and not inflict any more on you guys.
Massive hugs! I wish that you lived closer as I would be honored for you to be our guest at our home and table!
Could you email me?
Thanks, Joanna. I just saw your note. Awww.
Has anyone prepared baked brie, in puff pastry with raspberry sauce, and if so, how does it come out? Dtr. # 1 just called, they just left home, headed here for Thanksgiving and made the comment that she’d sure love some baked brie for an appetizer for Thanksgiving, and I do aim to please! LOL
#133 Linda~
My grandmother always pre-orders some wonderful butterflake rolls from a local bakery for Thanksgiving and Christmas. They are so popular, you can’t just walk in and buy some. I was supposed to take dinner rolls to my daughter’s pre-school Thanksgiving lunch yesterday and completely forgot to put in a second order for that. So, I ran to the store Monday night and picked up some of the Sister Schburt rolls. Everyone was oohing and ahhing over those rolls yesterday! I finally fessed up and told them I got them from the freezer section.
Kat and everyone~
So, I ran to the store Monday night and picked up some of the Sister Schburt rolls. Everyone was oohing and ahhing over those rolls yesterday! I finally fessed up and told them I got them from the freezer section.
I forgot my dinner rolls (and a few other things) so I am about to brave the store one more time. Now that those dinner rolls have been mentioned numerous times, forget the ones in the plastic bag. I am going to look for the Sister Schburt rolls. I do hope our store has them, ’cause now I WANT them
Linda,
I’ve made the baked brie before although not for a while and not with raspberry sauce but topped with almonds sauteed in butter. I can see wy the raspberry sauce works though because I also once served it with a sugary crust to offset the savory cheese and that was great.
Any recipe will do…..wrap the brie in something and bake…..I have used several sheets of frozen phylo (sp?) as well as good old, crescent roll dough, to wrap the brie before baking it.
As I recall, the oven stays a little lower than you would guess…..and use a relatively small piece of brie so the cheese melts before the crust burns